Have you ever relley loved a women (你是否真心爱过一个女人) -- bryan adams
昨晚最后时段力姐和千哥共同分享翻译的一首歌曲，俺特别喜欢，搜索出来一起分享

to really love a woman
to understand her - you gotta know her deep inside
hear every thought - see every dream
n' give her wings - when she wants to fly
then when you find yourself lyin' helpless in her arms
ya know ya really love a woman
when you love a woman you tell her that she's really wanted
when you love a woman you tell her that she's the one
cuz she needs somebody to tell her that it's gonna last forever
so tell me have you ever really - really really ever loved a woman?
to really love a woman
let her hold you - til ya know how she needs to be touched
you've gotta breathe her - really taste her
til you can feel her in your blood
n' when you can see your unborn children in her eyes
ya know ya really love a woman
when you love a woman you tell her that she's really wanted
when you love a woman you tell her that she's the one
cuz she needs somebody to tell her that you'll always be together
so tell me have you ever really - really really ever loved a woman?
you got to give her some faith - hold her tight
a little tenderness - gotta treat her right
she will be there for you, takin' good care of you
ya really gotta love your woman...
then when you find yourself lyin' helpless in her arms
ya know ya really love a woman
when you love a woman you tell her that she's really wanted
when you love a woman you tell her that she's the one
cuz she needs somebody to tell her that it's gonna last forever
so tell me have you ever really - really really ever loved a woman?
so tell me have you ever really - really really ever loved a woman?
so tell me have you ever really - really really ever loved a woman?


吉他点击般地似急还缓，两三节前奏，引出一个略带沙哑的男声，开宗明义地点题：
To really love a woman
To understand her　－
你想真心去爱一个女人吗？
你真的想要了解她吗？

歌曲以如何爱一个女人开始，节奏中缓，如导如诉：
-you gotta know her deep inside
Hear every thought - see every dream
N'give her wings - when she wants to fly
那就去了解她的内心吧，
去倾听她的每一个念头，去感受她的每一个梦想，
在她想飞的时候，给他安上美丽的翅膀．

Then when you find yourself lyin'helpless in her arms
Ya know ya really love a woman
当你发现你无助地依偎在她的臂膀时，你便会知道，你是在真正地爱着一个女人．

Bryan Adams的这首名曲，自八十年代中期唱红，历久不衰，
不知成为多少有情人的＇情侣之歌＇；不知让多少女人夜不成寐；
又不知让多少男人反躬自省．没有名言警句，没有花腔激越，简
简单单的道理，一把吉他独伴，却令人闻之心弦颤鸣，泪眼朦胧．
想知道如何真爱一个女人吗？用你的心去听吧，因为它是心的声音．

你注意到要‘倾听’ 她的每一个念头，‘目睹’她的每一个
梦想了吗？你知道为什么不是‘Listen’而是‘hear’，不是
‘watch’而是‘see’？因为你不能用耳朵去听，用眼睛去看，
而是要用你的心去感受，去共鸣！

你在爱一个女人的时候，知道她会梦想自由美丽的鸟儿一样
无拘无束地飞翔，而又盼望有坚实的大地可以栖息吗？你知道你
应该让她尽情展翅而又可以你为大树坚石避风雨修羽毛吗？如果
你知道，那么你就会感到你真真地爱一个女人，你的女人．

那么，无论是当你爱她爱到失魂落魄（Can't help to fall in love），或者是伤痕累累疲惫不堪地依偎在她柔润的臂膀，你就会知道，你是在真正地爱着一个女人．有意思的是，这里的'helpless'可以做多种解释，但无论是爱之迷茫还是养伤栖息，温暖可靠的女人臂膀，都是你的真爱体现。

歌曲没有停留在简单的感受，而是进一步的深入唱出如何让你的女人知道，感受到你的爱：
When you love a woman you tell her that she's really wanted
When you love a woman you tell her that she's the one
Cuzs he needs somebody to tell her that it's gonna last forever
(Cuzs he needs somebody to tell her that you'll always be together)
So tell me have you ever really - really really ever loved a woman?

当你爱一个女人，你要告诉她你是如何的渴望着她，
当你爱一个女人，你要告诉她她是这世上是你心上的唯一，
因为她切望有人对她说，你对他的爱海枯石烂．
(因为她切望有人对她说，你对他的爱天地共存)
那么，告诉我，你爱过，真正的去爱过一个女人吗？

爱是要年年讲，月月讲，天天讲的．爱不是一次性的投入，
爱不能一劳永逸．你的女人要听你的爱，听你对她说你爱她，
爱的发狂，爱的永远．女人是听觉动物，女人的耳根子最软．
女人的爱发自她的听觉中枢，女人最爱听的＇谎言＇就是＇
你爱她＇．来，告诉我，你真正的爱过一个女人吗？
你说过你爱她爱的死去活来吗？你热恋时说过的话，
在她成为你的黄脸婆时你还能发自内心地对她说吗？
你知道一句＇我爱你＇胜过一打无言的红玫瑰吗？问问你自己吧．

爱，决不会停留在视听的感受，爱是两个人的融合：
To really love a woman
Lether hold you - til ya know how she needs to be touched
You've gotta breathe her - really taste h er
Til you can feel her in your blood
N'when you can see your unborn children in here yes
Ya know ya really love a woman

真心爱一个女人
让她拥着你－直到你懂得她是如何切望你的爱抚
你要去呼吸她的芬芳－真真品尝她的美丽
直到你感到她在你血液里的流淌
而当你从她美丽的瞳仁中读到你们爱情的结晶
你便知道你真正在爱着一个女人

你知道女人对你的爱抚，是她对你爱抚的渴望吗？你知道
你的女人最钟爱的爱抚是什么吗？你懂得如何呼吸，品尝一个
女人的醇香美丽吗？你有过为她，你愿肝脑涂地，遍撒热血的
誓言吗？爱到最真，就是这种刻骨铭心，就是这种热血沸腾。
一个女人爱你到真，就是她的全部爱的体现的时刻，包括她的
母爱，她为你，为你们的爱情结晶而献身的柔情．如果你从她
的眼里，心里读到了这种柔情，你就会知道，你真正地爱着一
个女人，因为她真正地感受到了你的爱。

至此，爱在升华，爱在沸腾，爱的曲调由涓涓倾诉而转高扬激越的感情抒发：
You got to give her some faith - hold her tight
A little tenderness - gotta treat her right
She will be there for you, takin' good care of you
Ya really gotta love your woman...
给她以信念吧－紧紧地拥抱她
向她展示你的柔情－你要善待你的女人
她会永远在你身边，给你以关怀和爱
你要真心爱你的女人……

朋友，问问你自己，真正的爱过一个女人吗？真正的爱着你 的女人吗？
跟我来一起听听吧．要用“心”去听。然后告诉我你的答案。